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Stories I Only Tell My Friends: An Autobiography | [Rob Lowe]

Stories I Only Tell My Friends: An Autobiography

A teen idol at 15, an international icon and founder of the Brat Pack at 20, and one of Hollywood's top stars to this day, Rob Lowe chronicles his experiences. Never mean-spirited or salacious, Lowe delivers unexpected glimpses into his successes, disappointments, relationships, and one-of-a-kind encounters with people who shaped our world over the last 25 years. These stories are as entertaining as they are unforgettable.
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Audible Editor Reviews

Prepare to be amazed by the many ways this book and its author are better than you thought they would be. Everybody knows that Rob Lowe is very handsome, and that he spent a long time being a Hollywood wild child. Now in his 40s, Lowe’s reflections on his life thus far demonstrate a remarkably responsible perspective and a refreshingly self-deprecating look at how he ended up in the better state of mind he inhabits today. While the headlines and high notes may come and go, Lowe remains a devoted husband and proud father.

This listen is a small miracle for many reasons. It’s not simply the fact that Lowe reveals himself as capable of compelling writing, which he certainly does. It’s also not merely the path of the narrative that’s intriguing, though that’s definitely the case. Whether he is spending several chapters thoroughly reminiscing about the many lessons he learned during The Outsiders or sharing a quick anecdote about trying to meet Liza Minnelli when he was a little kid, Lowe indeed offers up a terrific set of insights about both life and stardom. He proves himself as a generous spirit, with strong thanks for Martin Sheen and solid praise for Patrick Swayze.

His narration is clearly heartfelt, and never comes across as phony or acted. This listen feels like a casual dinner conversation, minus the slick descent into rumor-mongering that usually rears its ugly head in memoirs of this variety. Lowe manages to steer clear of the blame game when analyzing the simultaneous blessing and curse of the Brat Pack label or his decision to leave The West Wing, and even finds some gracious adjectives for Tom Cruise. Be on the lookout for eerily spot-on impersonations of many stars, including a particularly good Christopher Walken and Matt Dillon.

In the end, it’s hard to put a finger on what makes this book so utterly fascinating. There isn’t anything shocking in the subject matter; there isn’t any mud-flinging in the tone; there is very little that stands out as an exclamation point. Yet the total package undeniably and irresistibly triumphs at being genuinely charming. This is ironic, because the book then actually sort of mirrors Lowe’s career. He’s spent the last two decades trying to upend the idea that he is simply a pretty face. The book succeeds in that endeavor, just as his several iconic film roles have done, and yet the shallow type-casting of Rob Lowe somehow too frequently persists. It’s true that he is a very dreamy guy, but this memoir absolutely proves that he is also intelligent, worldly, witty, and political. It’s an excellent listen that ought to once and for all put an end to the notion the Rob Lowe’s charisma is only skin deep. —Megan Volpert

Publisher's Summary

A wryly funny and surprisingly moving account of an extraordinary life lived almost entirely in the public eye. A teen idol at 15, an international icon and founder of the Brat Pack at 20, and one of Hollywood's top stars to this day, Rob Lowe chronicles his experiences as a painfully misunderstood child actor in Ohio who was uprooted to the wild counterculture of mid-70s Malibu, where he embarked on his unrelenting pursuit of a career in Hollywood. The Outsiders placed Lowe at the birth of the modern youth movement in the entertainment industry. During his time on The West Wing, he witnessed the surreal nexus of show business and politics, both on the set and in the actual White House. And in between are deft and humorous stories of the wild excesses that marked the 80s, leading to his quest for family and sobriety.

Never mean-spirited or salacious, Lowe delivers unexpected glimpses into his successes, disappointments, relationships, and one-of-a-kind encounters with people who shaped our world over the last 25 years. These stories are as entertaining as they are unforgettable.

©2011 Robert Lowe (P)2011 Macmillan Audio

What the Critics Say

"[Lowe] writes viscerally and insightfully...He looks back at the aberrant highs of his heart-throb days, the changing nature of stardom in Hollywood, the trade-off he has made between high life and home life, and the step-by-step effort behind his show business survival. He looked like the callowest kid in the "Outsiders" crew. Now he looks like the sturdiest of them all" (The New York Times)

"A fresh pop-culture history of Hollywood in the ’70s and ’80s from the point of view of the man who lived it…[Lowe] is as funny as he is thoughtful. This is the best type of celeb memoir, because its author is as interested in the world as the world is interested in him." (People Magazine)

"A lovely autobiography, equal parts dish and pathos.” (Vanity Fair)

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    Grant NANTUCKET, MA, United States 04-18-12
    Grant NANTUCKET, MA, United States 04-18-12 Member Since 2008

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    "Nicely done, Mr. Lowe."

    First, I was never a "fan" of Rob Lowe. Sure, I've seen his work but have never really thought much about it. I purchased the audiobook because it often popped up on lists of books that others have liked and I thought I would give it a try for a long car ride my wife and I were taking together. I was pleasantly surprised.

    Rob Lowe is an excellent narrator of his own words. As one would expect. He's an actor after all. But some actors don't necessarily have a voice one would want to listen to. Mr. Lowe does. I usually listen to non-fiction books at double speed in order to pack in the information into a shorter period of time, but I listened to Mr. Lowe's story at regular speed because his voice is pleasant and his stories felt more performed than conveyed.

    The author is an amazing mimic and he parrots the voices of famous and not-so-famous people throughout the book. His stories are compelling and interesting and well worth a listen. It's also refreshing to read a story about a person ??? star or not ??? who has hit rock bottom and has gotten their butt kicked by life, only to get help and later find happiness and success. It's a great story. Nicely done, Mr. Lowe. Now I am a fan.

    9 of 13 people found this review helpful
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    Flora Edina, MN, United States 09-05-11
    Flora Edina, MN, United States 09-05-11
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    "Not as much fund s I hoped"

    Maybe I just thought he was a funnier guy. Is he interesting? I guess. Is he self-absorbed? Absolutely. A little more Number Two, Mike Meyers, SNL and a little less Poor me - my parents divorced, I was scared, I like politics would have been easier to listen to. I forced myself through this audio because I kept hoping it would pay off. No dice.

    3 of 4 people found this review helpful
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    S new york, NY, United States 09-24-12
    S new york, NY, United States 09-24-12
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    "Interesting enough...but kinda eh...."
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    It's not that this book is bad or boring...it's just kinda...middle of the road. And dare i say...pretentious? Lowe talks a lot about what a good guy he is and what an artist he considers himself, but glosses over his alcoholism and the underage sex scandal that was a huge black mark on his career. He paints himself as an "aw shucks", Hollywood innocent when he began his career, with only the occasional admission of hard partying and girls. Seems suspect, especially because I'm old enough to remember the 80s rat pack phenomenon.In any case, the best parts are when he talks about the "wild west of hollywood" back in the day, when he first arrived, and the auditioning process--the other not-yet celebrities he was friends and competitors with and how they were just kids having a good time in Malibu. It seems like such different kind of celebrity than what we are bombarded with today. Kinda interesting. I wish he had talked about his career after West Wing, which he devoted a sizable chunk to. I think my issue with the book is that I didn't get a real sense of who he is after it was all done. It kind ends abruptly after he leaves The West Wing and so seems a little dated, too. What about Parks and Rec and Brothers and Sisters? With that said, he's an excellent narrator. It is his own story, after all, but he doesn't over do it and he knows when to act out the other characters and does so convincingly.

    6 of 9 people found this review helpful
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    Susan Hampton, VA, United States 05-21-11
    Susan Hampton, VA, United States 05-21-11 Member Since 2010
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    "Really enjoyed it and wish it was longer"

    He is a great writer and narrator. I loved hearing the journey of his life and his growth. His stories are all from my generation. So many of his stories made me stop and think..."I know where I was when that happened." Many interesting inside stories. Love how he changes his voice for the different characters! Now I want to go back and watch all his shows again.

    7 of 11 people found this review helpful
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    Sabreena Toronto, ON, Canada 03-01-13
    Sabreena Toronto, ON, Canada 03-01-13 Member Since 2013
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    "Stories I only tell other people's kids?"
    What could have made this a 4 or 5-star listening experience for you?

    More details about the people and situations. It felt like this was a closely guarded Wikipedia profile in soft focus.


    What do you think your next listen will be?

    Something that isn't ghost written.


    Have you listened to any of Rob Lowe’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

    He's a great actor but wasn't very forthcoming in this book.


    What reaction did this book spark in you? Anger, sadness, disappointment?

    Meh.


    Any additional comments?

    I now understand why unauthorized biographies are more exciting.

    2 of 3 people found this review helpful
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    JOHN Plantation, FL, United States 12-10-11
    JOHN Plantation, FL, United States 12-10-11 Member Since 2003

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    "Surprisingly Good - Well Written and Read"

    I downloaded this book because of the good reviews and high customer ratings. I was not disappointed and was actually very impressed with the depth, humility, and intelligence of this memoir. Rob Lowe is so much more than just a pretty face. His writing is solid and articulate. His reading is perfect and I had no idea he was such a good impersonator. He nails every voice from Carey Grant to Robert Wagner, including spot-on mimics of Patrick Swayze, Christopher Walken, Matt Dillon, Bill Clinton, Francis Copolla and more.
    This is a book that you do not want to stop listening to, whether or not you are a fan of Rob Lowe.
    Highly recommended.

    5 of 8 people found this review helpful
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    Melinda Frisco, TX, United States 07-01-11
    Melinda Frisco, TX, United States 07-01-11 Member Since 2011
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    "How long can you listen to a "People" article?"

    It's okay - "People" is okay for 15 minutes in the dentist's office, and that's about how interesting this book is. I'll keep it and listen like I do to podcasts, but "Bossypants" is a much better book in this category.

    5 of 8 people found this review helpful
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    Amazon Customer Louisville, KY, United States 05-04-11
    Amazon Customer Louisville, KY, United States 05-04-11 Member Since 2003
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    "One of the Best "Celeb" Bio Ever, Fantastic Listen"

    Who knew Rob Lowe could write? Who knew he could mimic just about any accent? Who knew he genuinely has a lot to say? This is one of those rare audiobooks thats grabs you at the first sentence and just keeps delivering.

    What this book has that most celeb bios do not is heart and context. He shares the parts of his life that have meaning and weaves them into a cohesive whole. This makes for a much more engaging tale that a string of career highlights.

    He clearly thought this book through before he wrote a word. It's a delight.

    Lastly, while Rob Lowe is an actor of my generation, I would never consider myself a fan...so this review is not influenced by a previous crush.

    8 of 13 people found this review helpful
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    Christopher Miami, FL USA 05-26-14
    Christopher Miami, FL USA 05-26-14 Member Since 2013
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    "Simply awful"

    Pretentious and name dropping from the start from a second rate actor trying to be a bigger deal than he really is..

    3 of 5 people found this review helpful
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    Regina-Audible USA 12-26-13
    Regina-Audible USA 12-26-13 Member Since 2008

    Audible editor and data evangelist. Lover of fiction, classics, celebrity memoirs, and quirky teen novels.

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    "Honest and Captivating"
    Would you consider the audio edition of Stories I Only Tell My Friends to be better than the print version?

    Absolutely! Nothing compares to Rob Lowe reading his own work. He's a superb storyteller and his voice adds that extra bit of flavor you can only get from the audio edition.


    What other book might you compare Stories I Only Tell My Friends to and why?

    'Along the Way' by Martin Sheen and Emilio Estevez


    Any additional comments?

    If you aren't yet a Rob Lowe fan, you will be after finishing this book. Rob (see, I can call him that because we're friends now) opens up to divulge raw and personal glimpses of his fascinating life. I was hooked from the start, and am eagerly awaiting the release of his next one in 2014.

    3 of 5 people found this review helpful
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