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Christian

Washington, DC, United States

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  • Getting More: How to Negotiate to Achieve Your Goals in the Real World

    • UNABRIDGED (18 hrs and 39 mins)
    • By Stuart Diamond
    • Narrated By Marc Cashman
    • Whispersync for Voice-ready
    Overall
    (390)
    Performance
    (278)
    Story
    (276)

    Negotiation is part of every human encounter, and most of us do it badly. Whether dealing with family, a business or diplomacy, people often fail to meet their goals in every country and context. They focus on power and “win-win” instead of relationships and perceptions. They don’t find enough things to trade. They think others should be rational when they should be dealing with emotions.

    Christian says: "This works"
    "This works"
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    Bought both the paper and audio book. Using both you can digest the info faster.

    I am one of those high IQ low EQ personalities. The approach recommended in this book feels very uncomfortable but I can't question the results. I hold a senior executive position in my company and within a week of using just a few of the techniques in my day to day negotiations I had emails flying around my company wondering what had happened to me. Suddenly a number of significant impasses and personality rifts within the executive team had diminished. Won't say resolved after all I am "being incremental". Also practices in a number of minor situations in hotels, restaurants and shops and have scored a couple of hundred bucks of discounts and complementary items.

    The only problem for us low EQ types is that consciously using this stuff is tiring. In a 3 day straight strategy sessions where I was using these techniques all day every day I came away physically exhausted. When I came to work the day after I simply declared to everyone that I was reverting to type for the day so I could recharge. The day following that I went back to using "getting more". I hope that with practice I won't find this so draining. Even if it doesn't will keep using this anyway the results are awesome.

    31 of 31 people found this review helpful

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