In perfect form, Junot Diaz relates to readers exactly how you lose her. We've all known guys like Junior. He is a sympathetic character who isn't perfect, isn't always nice, but who, through perfect storytelling, we come to love in spite of his flaws. Diaz as narrator adds the intended flavor to this masterpiece collection of shorts that is simply too good to miss.
"You must learn her.
You must know the reason why she is silent. You must trace her weakest spots. You must write to her. You must remind her that you are there. You must know how long it takes for her to give up. You must be there to hold her when she is about to.
You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.
And, this is how you keep her."
I read the reviews that were saying it was a sexist novel. Of course I didn't believe it because Junot Diaz is definitely is not a sexist. He talks about it and gives examples but how else to do bring up issues? By avoiding them? Seriously people, I don't know what you were thinking while writing this!
I was fascinated my metaphors he uses all over the book, you have to listen to this!
The book is filled with emotions. Great humor, overwhelming pain...
Also Junot is a great narrator!
funny, humane, stirring
It has a lot in common with Oscar Wao, though it's less narratively straightforward and traditional. It feels more personal.
He has a warm, handsome voice that brings a lot to the personal feeling of this audiobook.
I really loved this book. Junot Diaz is an excellent author and I can't wait for more by him, especially his own readings.
I loved Oscar Wao and have given it as a gift to friends and family so I had high hopes for this new book. I simply didn't get it, there was a lot of cursing which didn't bother me, the stories just seemed disconnected and lacking.
You won me.
When he actually says "this is how you lose her..."
His voice is so identifiable.
It made me laugh out loud many times. It made me sick. It made me feel like I was actually inside the mind of every bad boyfriend I had in NYc. And it made me love Diaz even more than I did after Oscar Wao.
Near the top.
Junot Diaz's voice. His narrative. His perspective.
He made it "real".
This was an amazing, complicated, heart wrenching story. The author was was an incredible performer.
I am not sure who might enjoy this book?
This book is a waste of money.
I really enjoyed the fact that this was read by the author.
The characters, particularly Yunior, had such an authentic voice. He is flawed and relatable.
The scene where Elvis finds out that the son he thought was his, was not.
Mr. Diaz creates fascinating characters with strong voices. He is particularly adept at capturing heart wrenching emotions behind the heavy masks of his multidimensional characters.