It is not that i did not enjoy the book somewhat.. Being in my 50's i did relate to much of what the author talks about and makes reference to. That said, it is not one of her better books. The best way i could describe her voice and reading of this book is she sounded like the actress Joan Cusack
have not listened to her books on audibles before.
It was very even and same old all the time. I did not object but it was not colorful in it's tempo
There were some but i can not recall
I think that there are many exasperating things about getting older and relationships etc and Nora Ephron's book I hate my neck is much funnier.
In this irresistible memoir, the New York Times best-selling author and winner of the Pulitzer Prize Anna Quindlen writes about looking back and ahead
- and celebrating it all - as she considers marriage, girlfriends, our mothers, faith, loss, all the stuff in our closets, and more.
Having read several of Anna Quindlen's other non-fiction works, I was accustomed to her literary voice and tone of writing, her turn of phrase and her ability to bridge the common experience. I'm not married and dont have kids, but we are the same age, share much the same background and pretty much the same politics, so reading/listening to her is always a good read. I'd recommend this to anyone of like mind or experiences.
Love her turn of phrase.
No. More like sisters of the same experience.
Mother, knitter, reader, lifelong learner, technical writer, former library assistant & hematologist.
Lots of Candles, Plenty of Cake is the first book of Anna Quindlen's essays that I have read, and I'll admit I approached it with some trepidation. Many of the reviews were just so-so, and after reading (and loving) several of her novels, I did not want to read a so-so Anna Quindlen book. Not every one of the essays in this book spoke to me, but there were several (especially Stuff, Mothering, and Faith) that were so good that they more than make up for the rest.
This book is touted by the publisher as a celebration of aging, and while Quindlen does write about getting older, it is not a precious collection of old-age aphorisms. There were several instances where I began to think that Quindlen might possibly have an easier and more comfortable time growing older than a woman in average circumstances who might not have a country place with a pond to walk around, or affordable healthcare, let alone a trainer who can help her with "the stories she tells herself." But Quindlen does not make apologies; she doesn't preach and she does write with honesty. One of the reasons I like Anna Quindlen's writing is that she makes me think, and she manages to do that here through wonderfully written and thoughtful prose.
What comes across most to me is Quindlen's incredibly deep attachment to her children and to her job as a mother. This is where her writing really shines. She writes ideas that I've also thought about, but she expresses them infinitely better than I could manage myself.
"Being a parent is not transactional. We do not get what we give. It is the ultimate pay-it-forward endeavor: We are good parents not so they will be loving enough to stay with us but so they will be strong enough to leave us."
She got it!
Being able to relive the journey from college to today with such insight was so reassuring.
I am more articulate about our legacy.
. . . and looking forward to more.
I thoroughly enjoyed Anna Quindlen's narration of her memoir, as always, beautifully written -- told as reflections on experiences in her life -- the women's movement,the illness and early death of her mother, childrearing, making room for adult children in the working world, being a writer, holidays/family traditions, menopause, exercise, and much more. Liberally sprinkled with humor and insight -- felt as though she was sharing with me personally. I plan to buy a hard copy of the book as there are quips and portions I'd like to reread and share with others.
Hope and Humor Mom
It's a memoir
Her voice and accent threw me at first, but you couldn't help feeling her personal connection to the words she was reciting.
Hard to choose... I like the idea of death described as a bird flying away, leaving the cage behind.
Prepare yourself for her thoughts on Catholicism if you are a catholic! Good to think about, hard to hear.
Anna Quindlen's voice is calming and so down to earth.
I couldn't wait to get back into the car to listen to her "talk to me". I related to so much of what she said.
I would listen to it again. The wisdom and wit from Anna Quindlen can be enjoyed and mused over many times!
The personal anecdotes were delightful and made the lessons she learned easy to assimilate.
Somehow, hearing it in her own voice made it seem like a conversation with an old friend and brought her stories to life.
All of the stories about her husband and their marriage really resonated with me.
I fully enjoyed this book and it gave me pause to remember and celebrate my own relationships with family and friends.
This book is so full of incredible observations and insight about life from a "boomer" woman's perspective! I laughed out loud...I shed tears...I saw some new light. Anna writes so many quotable passages...I had to get the Kindle version as well to re-enjoy the highlights!