Me, myself, and I.
"We Need to Talk About Kevin" is one of those novels that provoke a wide range of emotions, which for some may be a bad thing. For me, it was an incredible journey. This story of a mother coming to terms with horrific acts perpetrated by her son is filled with honest emotion and bristling narrative, a combination that often leaves the reader/listened a bit dumbstruck at what is happening. A story that I won't soon forget, I was mostly enraptured by the story, with one glaring exception.
The root of good horror (in this case, a concrete, literal horror and not one of a supernatural kind) is in its accessibility. While this story feels like something that could happen next door, the nature vs. nurture battle that plays out often feels a bit too much of an indictment of "nature". Kevin's natural state seems to be one of violence and sociopathy, to an extreme that almost seems to drown out everything else that happens. Perhaps Ms. Shriver was trying to interweave the emotions of a reluctant and horrified mother with the state of a newborn, but in the end it felt too much like Kevin was bad from the outset. This led to characterizations that felt far away from "normal" life, and thus diminished, just a bit, the shock and horror at what was happening.
Despite this, and because of the brilliant writing and unique style, I found this book to be among the best I've heard in the past year. Highly recommended, I suggest that any potential reader be steeled against the heartbreak that comes so frequently with wading through this story. In the end, with whatever glimmer of hope you can take away, everything is worth it.
Lionel Shriver's word choices were unique and communicative. This story is tragic and moving and beautifully written. I was pleased with how the story came together at the end. Well done.
After the first hour or so, i had just about given up on this one, but i'm glad i didn't! I saw the other good reviews and thought it must get better and better it did get! An exciting story of a mother and her son. Is it nature or nurture that develops children's personalities? Stick with it!
It took me few months to finish this book. Listening to it was like a picking scabs from an infected wound and pulling them off slowly. Wrapped in engaging plot and beautiful writing, author is presenting readers with chilling and incredibly disturbing story of a mother who is trying to come to terms with horrific acts perpetrated by her son.
Shriver writes about subject that society is very carefully avoiding - how do you love you child who is a monster? What do you do if you helpless to change anything? Who do you blame? Can you go on?
Coleen Marlo did a great job enhancing emotion of the novel. Pouring her soul out, Eva is still very educated woman and narrator maintains a balance between raw emotion and upper-class self-discipline very well, her Eva is very believable.
I own a small shop selling custom/costume Jewelry. I love to listen to audio books while I create jewelry. I love all animals and get very upset when they aren't treated well, even in fiction.
Good reader. The story line was excellent.
I do wish the author had left out the animal abuse, the book would have been better with out it.
The mixture of fact and fiction was flawless.
I would NOT recommend this book to any pregnant woman---not joking!
A very interesting way to tell a story, and the narrator does a fantastic job. This is a very disturbing tale about a family gone terribly wrong. All told from the mother's perspective in the form of letters to the father, it gets more and more addictive the further it gets along. Part cautionary tale and part mystery, the story of Kevin is heartbreaking and chilling. I couldn't get my mind off this book days after I finished listening! I watched the movie a couple of days after and I believe they did a very good job at telling the story; like another reviewer, I would recommend reading/listening first and then watching the film.
Never forget this.
The mother - because of how she tried to handle things and how she adapted and never stopped trying.
The Mother was most memorable. because of how she tried to handle things and how she adapted and never stopped trying.
All i have to say is - i will NEVER forget this book. I have recomended to many people.
I loved this book, if one can say loved about a story told strictly from the viewpoint of a tragic yet sometimes unsympathetic character such as Eva, the mother of Kevin. I wish I had listened to the book prior to seeing the movie; the twists of plot would have been that much more unexpected. However, I was thrilled to learn there was a book behind the movie that so disturbed me that I could not put it out of my mind; it continued to roil and simmer alternatively. I highly recommend the audiobook; the narration was excellent. After you have digested this multidimensional work, definitely rent the movie and enjoy the tour-de-force that is Tilda Swinton as Eva. I look forward to exploring additional works by Lionel Shriver, a most perceptive and courageous writer to have undertaken a story such as this.
I just did not believe this story. I realize the concept of a school shooting and the motives behind such deplorable behavior are suppose to be unfathomable, but I just could not get behind it. I listened to the whole nearly 16 hours and found the story interesting and horrific, but somewhat shock for shock value. I do not want to give away too much less I spoil the obvious ending for other. I was clearly listening to a story that was suppose to be about real issues, and real people (many actual events are quoted amongst the occurrences in this book in order to verify it as factual) but from the beginning I was more than aware that I was reading fiction designed to ignite a gut reaction from me.
I would recommend this to my Jodi Piccoult reading friends. It is about that level of emotional fiction. (I love her, no judgement).
I hated all the characters in this book, but it was designed to invoke such vial disdain. I especially hated the father for his dismissive behavior and his mother for her reckless optimisms and futile retrospect.
I hear it is a movie. I guess I would see it if I need a good cry.
I listened to this book a few months ago. It stuck with me like no other book has in years. This is the story of a family; beginning with a loving couple, ending with a nightmare. This book is not about school shootings, it's not that simple. What it does ask us to think about is the reason for and existence of evil in the mind and withered heart of a child gone wrong. Can a child just be born different, and bad to the soul? Or can a mother be so resentful of giving up her independence and harbor so much animosity towards her child that it breaks him?
I also watched this movie just this week. While very different from the book, it is also very good. I would recommend reading this book, then watching the movie a few days/ weeks later.
I felt like the movie helped me to make peace with the book. I highly recommend this to anyone who interested in edgy, real life books that make you think, and feel grateful for what you have.
While this is all very depressing, I can't find anything wrong with the book to give it less than the full score it deserves. Though, I admit it left me so sad and even anxious for a long time. The style of the writing is incredibly effective. The mother writes her story in letters to her husband. It's hard to put down. Very enthralling audiobook. It also adds an element of suspicion about whether the mother is telling the truth or her idea of truth.
It does resolve in the end leaving you without doubt as to the sanity of mother and child.