This book is full of practical advice on how to enhance relationships. It's for those who are single as well as those already in a relationship. Consider this a must-read if you want to have healthy, secured relationships.
I recommend this book to my client's who are single and looking for a healthy relationship
The most insightful relationship book I have ever read. It cuts through all the "crap" out there written about love and attachment, and gives real clarity to behaviors and relationships based on science.
I was hesitant at first because the title seemed limiting, but I was instantly impressed at the deep insights this book has into the psyche of many relationships. I've read dozens of relationship books, but this one stands out!
I'm a Book Nerd for sure!!
This book has opened my eyes to so many things. I actually can't wait to go on a date so I can surmise whether the person I'm with has an anxious, avoidant, or secure attachment style. I am so glad I read this book. It answered so many questions. If you've ever struggled with relationships and felt you were always giving more than you were getting then read ATTACHED. It explains so much.
There is no fluff. Here are the facts and you do what you want with it. Works for me.
This was recommended by a friend and I would pass it on.
I wanted to like this book and kept waiting for a discussion on a relationship combination of two Anxious attachment styles. It never came as the book only assumes you are in either of the following styles: 1) secure-anxious 2) anxious-avoidant.
It was pointed out that avoidant-avoidants aren't likely to be together long. Fair enough. And obviously secure-secure types wouldn't need this book. So I was really surprised the authors left this combination altogether out.
It was helpful however to take the strategies from chapter 12 into account for dealing with our own insecure styles.
explains how childhood experiences affect adult relationships and how to recognize the pattern of responsiveness your spouse has based on their childhood experiences