This book really helps you understand a few of those "magical" things that happen to you when in a relationship that are otherwise accepted as the norm, even though we don't understand them. Its put some things into perspective that I had never thought of before. Great book!
This book was quite a surprise. I thought it was interesting because of the title and that it was going to give some possible helpful information on general relationships and how adults interact. little did I know it was going to answer all the questions I had and unlock the mystery of past relationship misunderstandings and poorly handled interactions I now know could have been avoided or handled in a much better way. This book has given me a fresh outlook on how to spot, choose and deal with the different types of personalities in a much better way. A definite read for everyone. I would suggest it to teenagers before they start to date to balance out the fairytale myths about relationships that are fed to the masses daily.
I found this book to be exceptional! It have so much deep insight to the way I have related in relationships in my adult life. I saw myself and my tendencies clearly laid out. I also saw my growth and shift over the years. Growth is possible and so is healing and happiness. I'm so grateful to have found this book.
Great perspectives on adult attachment theory that fit so well into my life that it felt like it was written for me! Wish I would've read this years ago, but feel I have now unlocked to the key to evaluating relationships.
This book described many of the problems and patterns I've seen in my life coaching sessions. Many people I speak to are the anxious type but stuck in relationships with avoidant people. This books describes them, provides a quiz to discover how you are and gives examples on how to fix your behavior. Highly recommend.