I've always wondered why I have attracted people who are unable to commit or maintain intimacy. I feel like this is a handbook for a balanced relationship. I am looking forward to dating again, and have great hope that I will now be able to spot potential issues on the first date rather than six weeks or months in. Loved the book. Thanks.
So many "self help relationship books" have left me feeling like the author was asking me to be untrue to my feelings and needs. This is the first book that has made sense to me. I can now see that the two relationships in my life have something in common. The best part is that I now understand how to fix that.
This book is a fantastic piece of litterature for Anybody in a relationship. I would recommend it to anybody that have problems with their partner or just wants to become a better and more understanding partner and person. The performence is good and well spoken.
I found the content of this book invaluable in understanding relationships and have recommended it to many clients and friends. The narrator was difficult to listen to -- he seemed to have a patronizing tone oversimplifying the material with unnecessary emphasis on particular words and phrases.
Physician in Healthcare IT. Commuter. Listen to a lot of books. Recently introduced to Audible. I am hooked.
His voice is a bit boring. Message was good.
We can all learn something from this insight.
I know I did.
One thing I disliked about this audiobook was the focus on anxious attachment. I have avoidant attachment and would've preferred more suggestions toward a secure relationship. Overall this book provides a great understanding of what adult attachment is and insecure patterns people in relationships have. Very helpful in creating a positive secure relationship.