The characters she uses to "illustrate" her point are generic and described as if they were in a romance novel. The actual 'scientific' information - such as the hormones’ influxes at different developmental stages were interesting. However, I balked at listening to her character descriptions. Science was left behind to describe the 'long blond hair' or 'hourglass figure' or 'tight abs' that attracted the men. The one thing which was applicable is that, during and argument, some men actually get a 'high' (surge of adrenaline) when they are arguing which fuels their anger momentum. Not arguing with them, until they have 'calmed', is the best strategy. The narrator also has a ‘warm’, ‘motherly’ sort of voice during the descriptions of the male’s development. She seems so certain in the differences between male aggression and lack of female aggression that I felt like she has clearly never worked in the service industry .
Flighty twenty-something with an iPhone
This book so lovely spells out the simple and yet significant differences between men and women. As a female, reading this book it was such an eye opening lesson. I bought this book for my sister just before she had her son.
If you are a dad, husband, dating someone or may be thinking of being any of the preceding you have to read this book. Very easy listen - good narration. Women - you should give this a listen also. Explains so much as why we males do the stupid things we do. It also helps us males understand why you women are so difficult. : )
This is for all mothers who have a son - very insightful and rang true to this father. The facts (studies) don't drag on as the author gives good examples and dialog to explain. I relayed facts almost daily to friends who have just had sons.
This is such a cold, clinical look at life that I had trouble finishing it. I can't imagine what it would be like having the author for a wife, or a mother; I don't think I could stand it! When you read this book, try thinking about how cold, chemicals and statistics are. This book may be informative, but it is not a happy one. This woman must drive herself to distraction with all her knowledge. A brief skim-through is all you need.
Dr. Brizendine is an excellent storyteller. She has done a great job putting how the male brain works in small stories. Something most people, I'm sure, can relate to.
I listened to it two time within one week and hope to listen to it once more in the future. Not only that, I gave it to my wife to listen in hopes that she would better understand where I'm coming from when I react in ways she perhaps feels unwarranted. My next book; The Female Brian! Thanks Dr. Brizendine.
Both this book and Brizendine's other offering, The Female Brain, left me angry and disgusted. Not only is her science questionable, but the extremely narrow view of both men and women is extremely off-putting. She is clearly writing about the average, addressing only the superficial. I give it one star only because it is short.
Where are the male artists in her world view? where are the writers, musicians, painters, actors and poets? Who are these men? And how is it the majority create their best works in their prime? How is it endeavourers so reliant on perceptive and predictive emotional reasoning can have male participants at all? just answer me that.