Balanced approach wherein the author validates his assertions with studies of actual cultures, and scientific studies.
Have not read others of a similar nature.
Very listenable, and with great modulation and inflection.
Middle class parents put far too much emphasis on academics, and far too little on the requisite transition from boyhood to manhood, and the necessary conditions that must ensue in order for boys to successfully navigate the entrance into adulthood.
American education is dominated by the teachers unions, which fail to recognized the failure of young men to launch, and have little incentives to address this issue and its impact on our society at large. Because of this, any ideas contained in this book have a formidable obstacle to overcome. It is highly unlikely that the impetus for any changes in this reality will come from the education system. What is needed is an advocate for boys, which in our society, which has been infused with feminist ideology, may be seen as sexist. This advocate must have some powerful influence in order to sway the zeitgeist in which we find ourselves, that is for the most part hostile to any ideas that are gender-specific.
Thought-provoking, reasonable, realistic
It dealt with realistic issues in raising young men.
That one has to really consider the long term effects of addressing (non-dramatic) behavioral issues with drugs.
I love AUDIBLE! I never get mad at traffic jams and can listen to many different books, despite of my short time.
This book is an eye opener, even though I did not agree with the author 100%. Boys Adrift is an easy read and full of information. Shocked me to know about the motives why boys do not become great men, and specially about the endocrine disruptors in plastics, something that I was not aware.
Go ahead and listen to this book. You won't regret it.
It was truly interesting to hear about how much schools and the expectations for students have changed in recent generations, and how other environmental factors at home combine with the lack of hands-on learning at school to push many children (boys in particular) toward less desirable outlets.
"Why Your Son Probably Doesn't Need Ritalin"
Listen while I work, ride, drive & run.
Yes, the issues raised need discussion and action. One wonders if the chemical pollution in our world hasn't done more damage than we realize.
MH's reading like Leonard Sax himself. Believed it was the author speaking.
No, I needed time to absorb the ideas.
No...but this is a silly question, IMHO.
Again, no.....it's not a story.
He did just fine.
It has given me many things to think about should I ever have a boy. I don't think Sax is off base with its conclusions and its an increasingly disturbing issue today.
In general, Dr. Sax makes several valid points and packages it into a neat pentagon shaped box. I would recommend any parent of a son to read Boys Adrift. I am surprised that there was very little mention regarding homosexuality but perhaps he put that discussion in with his book Gender Matters....he'll only tell you about it a dozen times throughout your read. That also bothers me. Still, I'd recommend Boys Adrift.
I really loved this book and hung on to every word even though its non fiction. It's easy to listen to and Dr. Sax makes excellent, believable points backed up by studies. As a parent to a little boy and also as a person who has witnessed the phenomenon that he is talking about, I found this book easy to get into and leaving me with several convictions about how I will parent my son.
This was not so much an eye opener but a confirmation of things I have observed over the last few years. I found myself saying, ' I knew it!, a lot.
So many studies have been done on this subject, and the results are quite alarming to me.
The narration of the book was perfect.
The link between plastic and low testosterone in young males was surprising to me. I started thinking about all the plastic Evenflo products my son had in his mouth as a baby.
I would recommend this book to a lot of people, especially those with young male children and teenagers. There are many things parents and teachers can learn from this book. I don't think of this book as spotlighting a problem, as much as how one might learn from the studies, and parent or teach differently to avoid this outcome.
Today, with my children in ski school and their father at work, I had a whole day of skiing by myself in the company of Dr Sax on audio, and my "Ski Tracks" app on my phone. My top speed today was 94 km/h (I ought to invest in a spine protector), and I never stopped between lifts as there was noone I had to wait for. Midmorning, however, I realised that for once I didn't resent the time spent on the chairlifts because I so enjoyed listening to the detailed theories by Mr Sax as to why boys today are not motivated and tend to underachieve, and this was the reason why I was skiing so fast! :-)
Now, that I've listened to the entire book, I want to get the latest edition in print so that I can stick in lots of little post-it notes and use the book as an actual reference book whenever needed.
On the book: I'd like to think that it's very well researched given the amount of studies quoted and names of researchers given, but the disadvantage of an audiobook is the lack of footnotes and bibliography that one could delve into. Dr Sax puts togehter a very comprehensive list of contributing factors, starting with 1) the educational system (too much theory, not enough practice: "Wissenschaft" versus "Kenntnis" as he says) that requires children to sit still and master literacy and numeracy at an age where they should be in a more playful environment, 2) evil videogames that fry your brain (not really news), 3) exposure to environmental oestrogens disrupting brain development, 4) lack of positive male role models to show boys what to aim for when they grow up and 5) overly frequent diagnoses of ADHD and prescriptions of medications to "quiet down" boys instead of adjusting teaching methods and environments.
I am so glad that my two sons (6 and 9 years old) have never played video games (yet) or been medicated for suspected ADHD. They both enjoy competitive sports, have plenty of exercise and physical outlets, and spent the first two years of their formal schooling in an outdoor Wald-Kindergarten (forest KG), an educational concept that Dr Sax is very keen to propagate in the US. On the downside, my children drink a lot of bottled water, exposing them to phtalates from PET bottles and other environmental oestrogens. Guess what? As of today, the tipple of choice (by me for them) is tap water served in glass jugs! With regard to single-sex schooling, this will be impossible to achieve as long as we live in Switzerland, as this is simply not done here, neither in public nor private schools, but I think this may only become important once puberty starts, not so much during primary school years.
This would be a great book for a book club that hosts parents and/or teachers, as well as relatives of boys and young men as some of Dr Sax's theories may be considered controversial by some.... a passionate discussion could ensue - fun!! Outside of discussion rounds, I'd recommend this read to all parents, particularly those in the US with sons.
As a European living in central Europe, I would have liked some more studies and statistics for this part if the world, as clearly this was very much a US focussed book, and many of the cultural and educational aspects are very different over here. I'd also like to have a more recent edition of the book; even though I only bought this audio book a couple of months ago, it actually is from 2007, and for a book based on scientific research on pharmaceuticals, neurology, child development, psychology and educational approaches, six to seven years on, some of the research is bound to be dated already.
University administrator. Commuter cyclist. Dad, husband. Loves books of course. Aspiring Jedi Knight and Warder.
Among non fiction, very high.
How much society is now structured to foil and confound the natural progression of boys. If your son struggling with school, you should listen to this book. It is very powerful. It is well researched and when combined with the research you'll see that the Dr. Sax's recommendations are actually common sense. We've really overdone and overthought society and this book is a call for us to go back to more modest times.
There are aha! moments throughout the book.
I'm an administrator at a university and I wanted to consider information about why young men are not being successful at university. I'm now researching mentoring programs exclusively for men. Because of this book!