I was educated into oblivion but have overcome and am having a wonderful life
The information was new the first time but on the next listen I'll reflect on what I learned and see if I gain new insights.
The author warned against being consciously vulnerable to the sociopath. Don't even engage in "banter". She's right!
I really liked the way the stories were told about the individuals and then explained in a psychological way.
The most memorable part of this book was when Tilly moved. As a victim of a sociopathic relationship it was great knowing that even the most careless of people do usually get what they deserve.
I disliked the sleepy tone of the reader's voice.
No, it was explained well in the one book. Perhaps a follow-up about other psychological conditions.
I found this book very informative and empowering. Now I know what to look for and who to stay the hell away from!
So much interesting information that was completely new to me, such as the fact that, statistically, 4 out of every 100 people are sociopaths, or how difficult is is to spot them, and how, in some cases, society actually rewards the absence of conscience.
A three-way tie between the fascinating and disturbing facts on this subject, the riveting case studies, and Shelly Frasier's perfect narration.
The case study of the sociopathic mental health professional - chilling!
A disturbing and insightful eye-opener! Martha Stout has thoroughly researched her subject and made it accessible and even compelling reading for the non-professional.
The author started becoming emotionally caught up in her subject. Given that her subject is a nasty person, she still started to apply characteristics to the subject that she could not possibly know. Although the sociopaths do not care for other people, it doesn't mean that they are perpetually board and looking for ways to use people. A lot of her venom is understandable, but she make political assumptions that are more bias than science.
Yes. It clears up some questions on the subject.
I forgot she was reading this.
Understand that not all of it is true, but enough is to help understand the subject.
The premise is worth considering. That its presentation was so reliant on anecdote and much of the discussion seemed superficial made it less than compelling.
Manipulative, self-serving individuals are often problematic, and it seems that such conduct is sometimes motivated by a weak conscience plus adverse circumstances, sometimes by the absence of conscience which is the focus of this book. Can a layperson really distinguish between the two? Whether the distinction would be relevant seems largely circumstantial. However, opportunities to help weak individuals reclaim some dignity might well be lost if the label "sociopath" is too broadly applied.
The narrator of this audiobook read clearly and expressively, but the reading was marred by mispronunciation of several words and Thich Nhat Hanh's name.
I didn't expect such a short book to be so informative, but it was. This has to be one of my favorite books, since its discussion of sociopaths also explains the nature of human emotion in everyone else. It doesn't just describe this from the standpoint of psychology and neurobiology but even brain structure. It seems that most psychology/sociology books describe an author's own niche view that often isn't widely held, and so these books are usually not that good. This book was an exception. I can't really think of any complaints about it, other than that I wish it was longer.
the makeup of a sociopath
chapter 8 would be my opening. Do you know this person?
I thoroughly enjoyed this audiobook. I may listen to other books on this subject.
I absolutely loved this book. I listen to it on my hour long commute and sit in the car of my breaks to keep listening. I appreciate the amount of research and study that Dr. Stout put into this book. Now I see other people saying they wish she would have gone deeper. ....Well you can't get much deeper than a whole chapter on the neurological basis of the behavior, genetics, nature vs. nurture, case studies conducted for over 40 years, and experimentation on sociopaths neurological reactions to emotional phrases. We don't have answers to every question, we don't have all disorders completely figured out. People need to take the information they are given and continue to do their own research or remain patient until technology catches up with us.
Dr. Stout even gave clues as to whether you could possibly be associating with a sociopath. I was surprised by this. Many other books on biological behavior that I have studied very rarely address hidden signs or clues to look for. Probably in fear of people going to far with it and thinking everyone they know is sociopathic because they seem selfish.
This is an extremely educational read and I would highly recommend it to anyone who enjoys learning about human behavior and how it afffects society....or you.
Wonderful performance, her tone was perfect for the material she was reading.
I found this book to be very helpful. It explains the question I have always asked about people in my life... "why do they act that way"! If you are easily taken advantage of this book is for you.
IT IS BY FAR THE MOST INTERESTING AND SCARY BOOK THAT I HAVE READ.ONCE YOU KNOW THESE PEOPLE YOU CAN LEARN TO AVOID THEM.NOW THAT YOUR EYES ARE WIDE OPEN.YOU CAN REALIZE HOW YOU ARE BEING PLAYED AND ACT ACCORDINGLY
HOW THESE PEOPLE BLEND INTO SOCIETY SO SEAMLESSLY AND ADMIRED
SHE GAVE ME A BROAD PERSPECTIVE TO PERCEIVE THE BEHAVIOR FROM ANOTHER OBJECTIVE .THAT IS JUST THE WAY PSYCHOLOGY IS IN. THESE PEOPLE WHO DONT REGARD THEMSELVES AS SICK OR REQUIRE TREATMENT.
WHY THE BOSS IS SO ANGRY?
SCIENTISTS ARE SEARCHING IN THE BRAIN THE LOCATION OF CONSCIENCE AND THE AWARENESS OF SELF ,THEY ARE NOT SUCCESSFUL IN EITHER STUDIES.THEY ARE DELVING INTO PHILOSOFICAL AND MORALISTIC APPROACHES TO SOLVE THEIR INTUITION ABOUT SEEKING ANSWERS