Terrifyingly accurate and enlightening. I am looking forward to listening again and working through the exercises presented with a group of friends.
For many nice guys, it's difficult to hear the truth, because the truth brings to light some of the things that you want to avoid.
While listening to this book, I was tempted to stop listening because it brought to light so many of the characteristics and traits I've personally held sacred.
The book is a great introduction to to some of the faults of trying to be a "nice guy" but it is by no means a cure all. I believe that if you couple the teachings in this book with the exercises and some other books and methods, you'll truly be able to experience what the book offers.
Well done Dr Glover!
The only flaw was they did not give the website at the end of the book.
There needs to be a sequel to transition from nice guy to manhood.
I am not a self-help kind of guy. I was given this book by a good friend who had read it, applied the principles and changed his life in a dramatic way. As we became friends, he recognized some of the same habits and actions in my life that he had changed and later, I realized that he shared and dared me because he truly was a friend. I’m not going to say it was easy, but it is truly worth exploring. The rest of your life is worth it.
I thank God that this guy wrote this book. He is spitting truth. That nice guy stuff is for the birds. He speaks on it for what it is, a disorder. a syndrome. Definitely on the road to recovery now. Thank you!!!!!
I got this book with some doubts about its contents. you know I thought maybe it's a typical self help book. Then I realized its a really good book with many real cases of real people breaking free from this problem. ,
Say something about yourself!
If you were born in North America anytime from the late 1950s you really need to read this book. It will change your life and your understanding of what has happened to men and how it needs to be corrected.
Just finished listening so I won't say this book changed my life yet. But seriously it just blew my mind. I am total a "nice guy" and it gets in the way of everything. I of course don't perfectly agree with 100% but the message is spot on. I'm so glad I found this.