Terrifyingly accurate and enlightening. I am looking forward to listening again and working through the exercises presented with a group of friends.
For many nice guys, it's difficult to hear the truth, because the truth brings to light some of the things that you want to avoid.
While listening to this book, I was tempted to stop listening because it brought to light so many of the characteristics and traits I've personally held sacred.
The book is a great introduction to to some of the faults of trying to be a "nice guy" but it is by no means a cure all. I believe that if you couple the teachings in this book with the exercises and some other books and methods, you'll truly be able to experience what the book offers.
Well done Dr Glover!
The only flaw was they did not give the website at the end of the book.
There needs to be a sequel to transition from nice guy to manhood.
Eye-opening and thought-provoking book that shatters paradigms afflicting the young men of today's society. Men are not being raised to their full potential.
The author does a fantastic job in presenting a well-constructed and organized argument for why it is important for struggling men to break free from the bad habits they developed during their youth.
This book is one of those books that will change your life! It's like that perfect advice you wished your father would have given you when you were younger! The tenets are great and I felt like this book was about me, about my fears and my distorted perspective on women and sex! It's a must read (or in this case, a must listen)!
I'm on my 4th listen and each time I've gone back it just hit home harder for me. One of the exercises was to say no when you don't want to do something. Being a nice guy, that killed me. I got through it and realized that it was ok for me to take actions based on my desires and decline things I don't want to do. I've learned that I have been lying to myself for years by trying to keep the peace with everyone, thus building up anger and resentment. No More Mr. Nice Guy put a name and a process for recovery in my face to open my eyes to an abundance mindset. This has given me the "it's ok" to have wants and it's ok to go after them. I needed that.