If I had listened to this book when I was still dating, I would have saved myself months of excruciating frustration. In a painfully funny way this audiobook speaks the truth to all women out there. There is no need to psycho-analyze your man; if he loves you, you WILL know it. Plain and simple.
I'm a single female and hearing this book opened my eyes to how I want guys to treat me. This book is very informative. You will definitely learn something.
I love love loved this audio book! It made me laugh and cry all at once. I listened to it with my 19 year old son, and all he could say was... that's exactly right mom... that's the way it is. It truly was liberating to realize how many gymnastics some of us women go through in order to justify a realtionship that just doesn't fit. It's like the Emperor's New Clothes... we ooooh and ahhhh, make excuses and say how great they are underneath all that fear of intimacy and lack of regard, when the truth is - the guy is "buck naked" and "just NOT that into us"!!!
I liked the intro. But after about 20 min into the first chapter I found the book very repetitive. I skipped to the last bookmark and listened for the last hour or so. I got enough out of this. The last 20 min summary was worth listening to.
This no-nonsense, entertaining audiobook allows us excusaholics to look into men's thought processes. The knowledge is as empowering as it is straight-forward and honest. Ladies, if you listen carefully and take the advice seriously, you will save yourselves wasted emotional energy on Mr. Wrong, & shield yourselves against unnecessary hurt.
The premise of this book seems to be that men are just jerks and women should get used to it, or at least notice it, and move on. Do you need to read this book for that insight? I doubt it.