Do not go into this book expecting it to be as good as _The Millionaire Next Door_ (which this author co-wrote). It isn't. This book is a mess and isn't even sure what it is about. Feels like everyone was so eager to follow up the smash hit as quickly as possible that they forgot all about editing. There are some interesting (and useful) new tidbits on the habits of those who have accumulated wealth, e.g., what kind of house and neighborhood does the typical millionaire live in, but most of this volume is spent moralizing about the American education system. This is where the book becomes schizo. One the one hand it shows that most of those who have gone on to become millionaires did not do well on standardized tests, and therefore did not go on to grad or pro schools, or even college (except doctors and lawyers, obviously, but most of those aren't millionaires). But then on the other hand it decries those who discourage those students who score poorly on such tests from going on to higher education, e.g., relating the story of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. But I am left asking why this is something to bemoan. The author seems to accept that the tests are fairly accurate predictors of academic performance, so if future millionaires don't and won't do well in these settings (for whatever reasons), why not let them go and do what they do best (and better than most) as quickly as possible? And as for MLK, why is he in this book? Did he become a millionaire? Save your money (better yet, invest it in a good mutual), and go check the first book out from the library and read it again.
I'm a mom. I have drama in my life. I don't want books with the F-bomb, nor graphic violence. I read for fun and to bring my family together. I read for reducing stress levels. We have never had a television in our home and our children are now mid twenties to 19. We listen together and look for belly-wrenching laughter. So what is it like to live without a TV? Awesomely educational and inspirational. Each new book is a marvel.
I have listened to this audio and enjoyed it a lot. I will pre-warn other listeners that a lot of numbers are given in this volume and it may be more helpful to have a paper copy at hand. The statistics are given throughout and this can sometimes be confusing. I advise other listeners to slow down their thinking and really listen to the words. Don't multi-task while listening to this tome, you'll miss the good stuff.
Multi-millionaires don't spend their money, they save it. They look for opportunities to get more for their dollar than just trying to appear rich.
The number of multi-millionaires that have been in their homes for just a few short years are very few, most have lived in the same place for 10+ years. Being wealthy isn't about how much a person paid for their car, but about which car to drive for an over-all cost per mile.
A good book to make a person think. If the statistics bother you, pick up a paper copy to read along.
Once, while listening to Monday Night Football, I heard the announcer state that a certain team was in trouble because "only 50%" of teams in that situation had ever recovered from such a point deficit/yard loss/injury etc. Such statistics are nonsense because the announcer could have just as easily said that the team had a great shot because a full 50% of teams in the same situation had turned things around.
Dr. Stanely does the same here. He takes a statistic and shoves it at you without telling the whole story. On several occassions he spoke of how a percentage of his survey takers reported activity X was important to their success. The percentage would be less than 50%. Dr. Stanley, however, would not bother to explain how the majority accomplished their success without performing activity X.
Dr. Stanley also contradicts himself at many points in the book. In one chapter, he explains that integrity is absolutely key to success. If you want to be a millionaire in one generation, you should make it a point to be honest with everyone. A chapter later, Dr. Stanley holds up a man as an example of the type of success he's talking about. This man beat the odds by becoming a top executive in the carpet business without having completed college, let alone graduating from a top ranked school. How did he do it? Dr. Stanley makes a point of the fact that the man had a special gift for sales. He also mentions, hurriedly and in passing, that the man LIED to his company about his education level. He informed this company on his application and in his interview that he was a college graduate. Hardly a man of integrity but undoubtedly successful. Dr. Stanley does not elaborate how one example reconciles with the other.
This book was a waste of time. Nothing is here that isn't common sense (work hard, love your job, invest wisely) or that isn't contradicted later (be honest, unless it pays to lie). Give this one a pass.
This is one of many books that makes becoming wealthy seem accessible to anyone. It focuses on common characteristics of millionaires that wouldn't be obvious to the average person, like the importance of choosing a good mate or the kind of furniture the wealthy buy. It also discusses more likely topics like how to choose a house wisely. The book is redundant at times, but the messages are interesting and sink in. However, this book does not really deal with how to make money in the first place.
this book & the Millianaire next door are terific books to help you learn to live better and wealthier
I've listened to both The Millionaire Next Door, and The Millionaire Mind. If you've read one, you've gotten most of the content expressed in both books, and don't need the other, and the Millionaire Next Door was the better choice because the content was much more translatable. This book seemed like it was a lot of the think positive and you'll reach your goals, which I found to be patronizing and out of touch at times. It was an interesting listen, but not a very practical application to real life.
I was very impressed with this book. At first, I too was somewhat skeptical, thinking it might be another one of those gee-whiz books. However, Dr. Stanley did his research and in eloquent language, blows the cover on the wealth myth. So many people in America are either trying to be the Jones or catch up with them, that we are spending our way to poverty and financial bondage. Stanley sheds important light on the truth about wealth and those who know how to acquire it and keep it. I recommend this book to anyone that is serious about true prosperity.
The Millionaire Next Door is my favorite book of all time. While I enjoyed this followup to it, it was not as profound as the original. It seemed to focus on multimillionaire behavior rather than millionaire behavior which I couldn't relate to as well and seemed very far out of reach. Cotter Smith's performance was excellent.
It's great to learn that millionaires in so many cases are just real people and in many cases are even some of the most frugal. Something that rang true for me was that you have to do what you love. If you're not doing what you love, change your career. After reading this, I'm going to change the direction of my business.